The Conscious Communication Institute
of Greenfield, Massachusetts

Founded by Sandra Boston in 2000

 

TransformingYour Triggers Training

OVERVIEW

CCI Credo
Basic Training Syllabus
42 Waysto Stand my Ground
Art of Understanding Model
TeachersTraining Prologue
TeachersTraining Contents

SCHEDULE 

Course Logistics

Distance Learning Program

FOUNDER BIO

CHAPTER ONE OF BOOK

QUOTES FROM GRADUATES

SUGGESTED READING

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS 

CONTACT US

CCI STORE

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CCI is an opportunity to learn the art and the craft of effective communication. It presently consists of three levels for learning:

Level 1:  Basic Skills for Conscious Communication. In this 25 hour training, participants learn how to stand their ground when trouble arises, using skills for

  • Active Listening 
  • Identifying needs and feelings
  • Stating positions of each person clearly
  • Negotiating an outcome that is satisfactory to all parties.
  • Transforming attacks into an exploration of differences
  • How to stay in a conflict long enough to create a positive outcome
  • Self-management in order to tolerate the heat generated by differences, judgment, shame and disregard
  • How to take a non-negotiable stand with awareness when necessary
  • Mediating conflicts between others

Level 2:  The Art of Understanding . This advanced class provides the opportunity to deepen the practice of skills learned in the basic course, with focus on participants' life experiences. The class becomes a community of support for using conflict to improve relationships. Emphasis is put on the importance of creating understanding and building relationship through the experience of conflict, rather than just trying to end or resolve it. Teachings are drawn from Gandhi, Arnold Mindell, Margaret Paul, John Bradshaw, Deborah Tannen, Stephen Covey, and others.

Level 3:  Training for Trainers . This training prepares participants to teach the curriculum of the basic course through both study of the curriculum and practice teaching to each other.  A ninety-five page manual is provided, including an appendix of poetry, songs, and other collateral materials to enhance the learning environment.  At the conclusion of this preparation, participants seeking  certification as Associates of the CCI will do an apprenticeship with supervision and written feedback from co-trainer and class participants. Upon satisfactory completion of the apprenticeship, trainees become certified to teach independently with financial responsibility to the CCI. All teacher training is done by the founder, Sandra Boston.

Associates then become part of a network of teachers who will meet monthly for group supervision, mutual support and continued skill development. They may also be invited to assist Sandra Boston in her training work. There will be annual gatherings for Associates for further training and networking. The CCI will actively promote the work of the Associates, helping with publicity, outreach, and keeping a national database.

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SANDRA BOSTON, MSW, MEd

Sandra Boston has taught communication skills and conflict resolution for over 30 years to a wide variety of groups including parents, church societies, social change activists, Ugandan women in village banks, school faculty, staff of social work centers, day care centers, health clinics, retreat centers, coop boards, etc. She has studied Thomas Gordon's Parent Effectiveness Training, Gandhian nonviolence strategies, Marshal Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication, Arnold Mindell's Process Work, Family Systems Theory, Twelve Step Programs, Margaret Paul's Inner Bonding Therapy, and many others. Sandra also founded The Pilgrim Warrior Training for Women and The Women's Leadership Institute. She maintains a psychotherapy practice and does organizational development consulting, board and staff retreats, and mediation for organizations. She has done extensive training internationally, including Canada, Switzerland, Uganda and Russia . She has published a song tape and songbook of 54 songs and chants for women's ritual. She is the author of a self-published book, Aiming Your Mind: Strategies and Skills for Conscious Communication.  Sandra is the mother of three grown sons and lives in Greenfield, Massachusetts, USA.

 

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For the next Transforming Your Triggers training in Greenfield, contact Sandra Boston, bostons@aol.com or 413-774-5952

TRANSFORMING YOUR TRIGGERS

A six-hour workshop with Sandra Boston

The patterns of defense that we carry around fear are not our fault, but they are our responsibility. Learning to work with our deepest fears of betrayal, abandonment and rejection frees us to begin truly conscious communication with our self and others. Learn to create a safe internal environment, working with biofeedback, visualization, color, and polarity dream work. The principles for freeing ourselves from fear and defense are based on the work of Jett Psaris and Marlena Lyons in their book Undefended Love. We will use a methodology for shifting your energy from dread to relief and lightness of being. You will practice this skill three times during the workshop and have a tool to work with and assist others when you return home. I also have a CD of the lectures and the guided meditation to support you to continue the work at home (cost $5). I recommend that you read the book before the workshop if possible. "When our response to fear is kindness, everything softens." J.Psaris and M. Lyons, Undefended Love.

Cost: $85 with $25 non-refundable deposit to register Information: Call 413-774-5952 or email bostons@aol.com

Eat something before you come. A substantial snack will be provided, with two breaks during the six hours. Please come 10 min. early to settle in so we can start on time. Thanks. Hope to see you there!

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